How you look is not the issue
Of course we all assess potential partners’ looks as part of a selection process. That is usually the first criteria we apply – do they look the part? Do we...
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Single forever: are your chances to find love diminishing with time?
The most common fear for most singles is that time is running out for them. Once you hit 25 or 30 (depending on your culture and environment), most people start...
I am not what most look for (in a partner)
Dating is a tricky business. You want to find your right match, but you often feel you have to look and sound your best, not just be your every day,...
How your parents loved you as a child, and each other (or didn’t) still impacts your love life. Here is how.
We learn about love and relationship from our parents, or guardians – first and foremost. The patterns we pick at that early age are often repeated and re-lived throughout our...
To love or not to love
Every now and then I get messages from people who tell me they’ve given up on love. They don’t want to try any more because they’ve tried for years or even...
How to get dates
My last blog was helping you to get better at first dates. But then you asked – and rightfully so: “What if I can’t even get to that first date?”...
I just know love isn’t possible for me
The biggest obstacle to any change in your life is – you. I know it sounds harsh, but if we could look at our lives and ourselves from an outside...
What is true confidence – and why it’s crucial in finding love
I often talk about the importance of being confident when you’re looking for love. But I am aware confidence is a rather abstract term that is often misunderstood or misinterpreted....
You need to have a life to have a love life
If I only I had someone – everything would be better and easier in life. Everything would make sense. I’d never feel lonely again. I would be happy. Does that...