How to get over your first (or biggest) love
You had an amazing connection, something you never experienced before. But now it’s over and you feel you will never find it again. But that feeling, and that thought –...
POSTS AND VIDEOS ON LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS
I am not what most look for (in a partner)
Dating is a tricky business. You want to find your right match, but you often feel you have to look and sound your best, not just be your every day,...
Nobody likes baggage. But we all have it.
Baggage. It’s almost a dirty word. But we all live, and life is messy. No matter what we do, we can’t really avoid collecting some baggage along the way. But...
How to manifest a great match
Manifesting (or creating) your own reality is a very powerful concept, but most people are not sure whether it’s a real thing. And if it is – how exactly does...
How your parents loved you as a child, and each other (or didn’t) still impacts your love life. Here is how.
We learn about love and relationship from our parents, or guardians – first and foremost. The patterns we pick at that early age are often repeated and re-lived throughout our...
Learning from bad experiences: find that silver lining
A few weeks ago, I was mugged and had an accident. It happened in a very safe and touristy place, and in broad daylight. Shortly after that, I wounded my...
I always get friendzoned
If I had to pick one pattern that is typical for men who ask for my help in finding a partner, it would be this one: always getting friendzoned. Happens...
(Un)realistic expectations
We all operate with some level of expectation from others – friends, family, partners, work colleagues, potential dates, even people who serve us in shops or restaurants. And in all...
Follow your heart… or your mind?
“Just follow your heart, it will tell you what’s best for you.” This is a very popular piece of advice today, and you know what – in theory, there is...
To love or not to love
Every now and then I get messages from people who tell me they’ve given up on love. They don’t want to try any more because they’ve tried for years or even...