Why going on dates (even bad ones) is good for you
When I talk to singles who’ve been single for long – they often tell me they haven’t been on many dates, not recently, not for years. Some even never.
And I always ask them: well how do you expect to find a partner then?
I know – going on dates can be really scary. It comes with no guarantees and no predictable outcomes. That’s why many people dread dating.
Sometimes it’s very hard to find someone to go on a date with, because people you ask on dates reject your invite.
But still, you have to go on a few dates… once in a while… more than once a year maybe, to actually meet some potential partners. It’s great when it happens randomly and organically, and I always yes to that. But you can’t rely on fate, if you want to get a relationship, you’ll have to get dates first.
Watch my new video blog to see why is dating important, why bad dates can be good for you – and how to approach the whole dating issue so it feels more like fun and less like a chore.
LET ME HEAR YOUR THOUGHTS
How do you feel about going on dates?
When was your last date? How often do you go on dates?
Do you feel you’re putting enough effort in it?
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